my thoughts....my life....

and so i reply again :)

it's certainly appalling if primary 2 kids are using vulgarities too
becoz , simply put, they lacked the maturity to know wat's wrong with it


"and so i really hope wat u said is more than 100% correct kelvin."

guess i can onli speak for myself and my close frens on this
habits are hard to kick , tt's for sure
i wun argue with that
but at the very least, we will not use it around ppl whu are offended by vulgarities and certainly not on my family and not around children either
again, it's up to the individual

"i know swear words somehow have this magical after-effect of male bonding. say the f word in any sentence and a large majority of a group of guys will break out in laughter and there will suddenly be this certain camaraderie."--------

no i personally disagree with this.To say that hurling vulgarities helps bonding is ridiculous. when the guys break out in laughter, they are not laughing at the use of the word "fuck" .they are laughing at the amusing situation tt (regrettably) lead the person to utter "fuck" .For example, say A wanted to play on prank on B by emptying a pail of water on B from behind.B noes bout it and decided to turn the table on A by asking C to help.Juz as A crept up behind B with the pail of water, C came up and pour water on A. A yell "fuck!" and everyone whu's watching laughed. sub "oh no" or "wat the heck" for "fuck" and ppl will still be laughing.coz it's isn;t the vulgarity that ppl are laughing


"hoping for the day that someone brave will tell his platoon that there should be no swearing going on, and that an NS guy comes out and says with full conviction that there's really no need to swear for 'bonding purposes'."

realli, it's not about bonding for i realli dun c it helping bonding in any way
ok even if u mean to come out and tell everyone that there's no need to swear for any reason watsoever,
i feel u r being idealistic here nel ha
nono, i dun blame u for tt
u got to experience NS for yaself to noe why i say so
becoz, u will come to realise that yes, the army will be betta off with less vulgarities but hmmm, it's a futile effort to eradicate all

"someone once told me that swearing helps them let off steam. and then i start to wonder what happens when they become immune to the f word and have to find something else to let off their anger. wat r they gonna move on to? or is there some other reason people use it that i somehow missed while growing up? my guy friend said "wahlao nel, u're never gonna get married la" lolx"----

NOw wat's wrong with ladies who dun like vulgarities?
there's certainly nothing wrong with that....

posted by zaraki85 @ 11:53 pm